So today was my league night for bowling. I have two friends from high school on it, one of the friends moms and another friends mom on my team, making five members on a team. Now the people on this league are all women. Its an all woman's league night and I am okay with that. Almost all the women on the league like me and my friend who just started this year. BUT....there are always one or two teams that must center out those newbies and look down on them.
On this league there are about six or seven of these women who center my friend and me out. I dress in jeans and a t-shirt almost all the time, even in the summer since I am not comfortable enough in my body to wear shorts or tank tops. Now I usually dress in black t-shirts or a dark colored one. My jeans vary in blue shades and I wear black high tops. My friend has the body to wear tank tops and wife beaters. She skinny and not gonna lie here, a really nice rack that is a little better then mine. She wears tank tops often to league night and at the Christmas party the league held during bowling she was wearing one under a hoodie she had on. So during the first game she took the hoodie off to reveal a light blue tank top on with a bra underneath and not even five minutes later one of the older ladies came over and asked if she could cover up because she was offending some of the women in the bowling alley. Yes, the league has rules and dress code, but no one...and I literally mean no one follows it. No cussing, no cell phones or any electronic devices, no ripped clothing or anything.
These women on this league cuss more then I have heard in my entire life time so far. They are worse then the drunk men on the mens league night. I give anyone who is like 40 or so ad up respect since they are my elders, but when they choose to look down on you because you are new or on the way you dress is something I can't handle. There is something called lane courtesy when bowling. I learned at a young age that if anyone is on the lane to your left or right, you let the person on your right go first unless they let you go first. If they aren't on the lane yet I just go then. Lately I have been already up on the lane adjusting on where I was going to throw my ball and the old ladies would just get pissed and quickly go. I can't stand it really after learning more about the rules...Gah...it tis just annoying. I see no point in respecting them when they will not return it no matter how nice and polite I am.
That was the only excitement of my day. I will be trying to get the first part of my story posted soon as long as I don't have any more writers block. I've been getting distracted lately and that has not been helping. As long as my one friend can keep me focused long enough I'll be able to get it done by the end of the week. Until next time :)
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